Guards Up

There is a superstitious belief going about that once you meet the "right" girl all other girls will lose their appeal. That's not true. Girls are attractive (sometimes dreadfully so). But the key is, I suppose, never to compare them to the "right" girl (your girl). Ravi Zacharias once suggested that saying yes to one girl meant saying no to every other girl. This is true. Love can be pretty exclusive. But there will be other girls who will be pretty. Perhaps even just as pretty and there even might be others who will seem prettier. Or better. It's not all about prettiness. It also has to do with finding others who for some reason or another seem more compatible or something. That is, of course, not negotiable. Commitments never are. That is why we, as men, need to keep our guards up.